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Intro to Inner Game is Not Enough

You may have heard the term 'Inner Game'. This probably originally stems from David DeAngelo's dating work and the work of psychologists.

I'm here to say though that inner game is no longer enough. It is no longer enough just to 'know thyself' in order to have success with women and dating.

Why isn't 'inner game' enough? After all, it's agreed by many top leaders in the seduction community that 'inner game' is everything.

First let's quickly look at their definition and then mine.

Before me, dating coaches would say that there is an internal and an external 'game' that exists. The internal (or 'inner' game) is your personality, beliefs about dating and women, tactics, ideals, morals, and self-limitations.

The external or 'outer' game is the social aspect of pick up lines, approaching, techniques, stories, sets, group theory, and how to work in different social environments like clubs and bars.

Well, I have made things a little more clear by adding the 'natural' game to the table. Now, there are 3 areas that matter and they can be represented in both men and women.

I call it N.I.S. character. A man has a natural, inner and social character.

My definition of 'Inner game' or 'character' is a man's personality, beliefs, skills, hobbies, etc. Pretty much the same but we have added the biological component of his natural character. This is a priceless differentiation.

Now, a man is not limited by his own inner game. Instead he can harness his biological character without putting all of the pressure onto his own self-belief system. His natural character is his inherent birthright to sow seed and be at the top of the food chain.

This right is far greater than any man's own level of personality. The force of nature is within him yet other teachers are telling him to change his self-limiting beliefs.

He just has to understand the relational dynamics of what is really going on in all of these levels and he will unleash his entire character around women.

Since women are leveraging powers greater than their own 'inner game', it's up to a man to somehow be 'equal' or greater in power when he first meets these beautiful women. Why? Because they are looking for a higher status or more powerful person than they are; naturally and socially.

So instead of a man's limited initial leverage power ratio of 1:1 with his unique personality, he'd better represent equal power across the rest of his character and what he brings to the table from the very start to open up relations with women.

It's later on that his 'inner game' and personality attributes matter the most. Upfront, he has to prove that he is equal or greater in relational power than her.

When you approach a woman, you don't care about her 'inner' personality. You're almost always attracted to her sexploitative and accentuated self (her social character and desirability ratio). These are powers greater than her.

So once again;

Inner game is no longer enough because a man is limited in power in relation to the inner and social power that women are clearly representing.

Fortunately as a man, you can leverage your natural character strength and even social character status (in certain cases) to your advantage. These are other things that you bring to the table anyways.

You're always communicating something and women ARE judging you in those other factors so it's time to 'step it up' and represent instead of just focusing on what matters the least upfront.

-Rion Williams

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Rion Williams is one of the foremost experts in dating advice, personal power, body language and social dynamics.Learn how to be an alpha male who is comfortable in his own skin and succeeds with women and dating @ www.abovethegame.net Also, you can get instant access to see the 'secret of women' for yourself @ www.secretofwomen.com/resources.htm

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